Life is a gamble

tonight called mom.
she used some facts and stories trying to persuade me to think about every decision carefully and not to gamble.
well, i know there are scary consequences of making one single mistake.
but no one knows the outcome if he never tries.
if that is the risk i have to take, then there is no way to avoid it.

we have entered a stage of choices.
the industry we are going to work in, a small company or a huge MNO, the popular banking and finance industry or the specific area of our own interests.
to get an advanced degree or directly enter the work force.
to stay in this boring small island or get out of here asap.
to stick to the current guy or girl or be beaten by the harsh situation and give it up.
to bet whether this one is our soul make or just an illusion which we create on our own.
to accept the offer or wait for another one to come.

sometimes we need proof and response from the other. someone we just choose to believe and hope for the best.
you never know when is the right time and what is the right thing to do.

I guess life is like a big gambling game, with numerous hands by the table.
you try to guess the cards in their hands. sometimes you get them, sometimes you just are over confident. even sometimes you under estimate yourselves.

then that's life.
I am not going to quit just because I am afraid that the possible results will not be what i expected, or because I may have a better option.

Don't gamble!
Well, then what else can we do.